How Mediation Works
We will explain all the steps in the mediation process at the initial one-to-one meeting (the “MIAM”) and will answer any questions you have.
We work hard to create the right conditions for your mediation. We will ask you questions in the MIAM to enable us to work with you to understand the best arrangements for the mediation sessions.
At the start of the mediation sessions we will refer to:
- Principles governing the mediation process
- “Ground Rules” which will enable you to speak freely and to hear each other in a way that works for you
- Creating an agenda
As the session progresses you will:
- Provide information/Disclosure (read more)
- Look at options
- Consider preferred outcomes that meet both your needs and those of your children
How The 5 Stages of Mediation Will Work for You
Stage One
This is an opportunity to put across your views and make clear your own perspective without interruption. Mediation provides an opportunity for you to communicate your feelings, facts and ideas in a safe environment. We identify the issues together and establish a mutual agenda.
Stage Two
You will communicate and negotiate with your ex. either directly or through the mediator. Mediation is a process, facilitated by impartial communication professionals trained in conflict resolution to support your communication and assist you in exploring the issues.
Stage Three
We will help you to identify options including those you might not have already thought about.
Stage Four
Testing and crystallising different ideas and favoured options is the next step.
Stage Five
You will both agree on an option that works best for you and the mediator will draw up a set of proposals which you will make binding, allowing you to move forward with your lives.
At every stage of the process we will ask you to get advice from your solicitor, so you can feel confident in your decision making.
